Is grief a trophy? Something to flaunt?
Some people blurt it out to the most unknown of persons, some keep it within till it grinds their heart and wrenches their soul out.
Which is better?
People will listen to the former, will respect the latter. I sometimes wonder whether such skills should be taught in school.

Frozen

Just remembered the mercy speech from high school - Merchant of Venice

The quality of mercy is not strained.
It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven
Upon the place beneath.
It is twice blest- It blesseth him that gives and him that takes.
Tis mightiest in the mightiest; it becomes The throned monarch better than his crown.